^.^ Notes to girls (about relationships with boys)

Isn’t being relationship easy? Just say a word “Yes”. Then, you end up with a boyfriend. There are usually three kinds of aftermaths.

First Scenario

First, he seems to be in love with you. Like before you guys get together, he will still repeat that he likes you a lot. Soon, he starts to get bored. However, at the same time, you might have already fallen in love with him, falling for his words. Then, he will start paying less attention to you. He will give you lots and lots of excuses to make you sick and tired of him. Then, at last, you end up breaking up with him because you can’t stand his behaviors any more. Or else, he will end up breaking up with you because you are not any more as interesting as before.

Second Scenario

He loves you so much that he will be always jealous. He will tell you to do this or not to do that. He will be so-called protecting you and showering you with his love. Well, it is really cute when you first get together with him. You will think “OMG. He cares about me this much”. However, after a few months (or later if you are too dumb to figure it out), you will start becoming frustrated with his jealousy. You will start blaming him for his jealousy. He will start accusing you of betrayal. At last, you guys will break up with one another because you cannot stand each other.

Last Scenario

First, you refuse him again and again. Yet, he will not give up. He tell you again and again that you are the only one for his whole life. At last, you believe in him. Then, you get together. Guys? They just treasure you only before they get you. They want you more if you refuse them. When they actually get your heart, they do not treasure it any more. What’s worse, they will crush it. Now, you are left heart-broken.

Then, how can you get away from these scenarios? It’s so easy. Don’t get a boyfriend.

If you don't believe, go ahead and get a boyfriend. You guys will fall into one of the categories. If you guys really love each other happily ever after, then, congratulations! You are really lucky in your love life. I really hope that you guys can maintain that happiness ever after.

*P.S. (to girls) Don’t believe the guys even if they say they aren’t one of those guys who will break your heart. Most of the guys are the same. They are just there to break your heart.

*P.S. (to boys): I don’t mean to offend you guys. Don’t worry. I will also write “Notes to boys” too… soon… ^.^